Student Resources
Do You Need Nar-Anon?*
Affected by a Loved One's Addiction?
NAR - ANON Offers help for relatives and friends of addicts
Ask yourself the following question and answer them as honestly as you can:
- Do you find yourself making excuses, lying or covering up for someone?
- Do you have a reason not to trust this person?
- Is it becoming difficult for you to believe his/her explanations?
- Do you lie awake worrying about this person?
- If it is your child; is he/she missing work and leaving bills to pile up?
- If it is your spouse, is he/she missing work and leaving bills to pile up?
- Are you saving mysteriously disappearing?
- Are the unanswered questions causing hostility and undermining your relationship?
- Are you asking yourself, "What's wrong?" and "Is it my fault?"
- Are normal family disagreements becoming hostile and violent?
- Are your suspicions turning you into a detective and are you afraid of what you may find out?
- Are you canceling your social functions with vague excuses?
- Are you becoming increasingly reluctant to invite friends to your home?
- Is concern for this person causing you headaches, a knotty stomach, and extreme anxiety?
- Do minute matters easily irritate this person? Does your whole life seem like a nightmare?
- Are you unable to discuss the situation with friends or relatives because of embarrassment?
- Are you frustrated by ineffective attempts to control the situation?
- Do you overcompensate and try not to make waves?
- Do you keep trying to make things better and nothing helps?
- Are the lifestyle and friends of this person changing? Do you ever think they may be using drugs?
Mission Statement
The Nar-Anon Family Groups are a worldwide fellowship for those affected by someone's else addiction. As a twelve step program, we offer help by sharing our experience, strength and hope.
