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Do You Need Nar-Anon?*

Affected by a Loved One's Addiction?
NAR - ANON Offers help for relatives and friends of addicts

 

Ask yourself the following question and answer them as honestly as you can:

  1. Do you find yourself making excuses, lying or covering up for someone?
  2. Do you have a reason not to trust this person?
  3. Is it becoming difficult for you to believe his/her explanations?
  4. Do you lie awake worrying about this person?
  5. If it is your child; is he/she missing work and leaving bills to pile up?
  6. If it is your spouse, is he/she missing work and leaving bills to pile up?
  7. Are you saving mysteriously disappearing? 
  8. Are the unanswered questions causing hostility and undermining your relationship?
  9. Are you asking yourself, "What's wrong?" and "Is it my fault?"
  10. Are normal family disagreements becoming hostile and violent?
  11. Are your suspicions turning you into a detective and are you afraid of what you may find out?
  12. Are you canceling your social functions with vague excuses?
  13. Are you becoming increasingly reluctant to invite friends to your home?
  14. Is concern for this person causing you headaches, a knotty stomach, and extreme anxiety?
  15. Do minute matters easily irritate this person? Does your whole life seem like a nightmare?
  16. Are you unable to discuss the situation with friends or relatives because of embarrassment?
  17. Are you frustrated by ineffective attempts to control the situation?
  18. Do you overcompensate and try not to make waves?
  19. Do you keep trying to make things better and nothing helps?
  20. Are the lifestyle and friends of this person changing? Do you ever think they may be using drugs?
     

Mission Statement
The Nar-Anon Family Groups are a worldwide fellowship for those affected by someone's else addiction. As a twelve step program, we offer help by sharing our experience, strength and hope.
 

Nar -Anon Family Group
(310) 534-8188 
(800) 477-6291
WWW.nar-anon.org